Honouring Your Vagina Begins With Self Pleasure

Honouring your vagina begins with self pleasure, so it’s time to redefine how we think and feel about our vagina’s. The vagina (aka pussy, cunt, vulva etc) is often overlooked and misunderstood and definitely, in my opinion, not given the attention and love that it deserves.


“Our pussy is like a flower.”

It’s time to honour our vagina’s and treat them like the divine and exquisite temple that they are, allowing only amazing energy and love to enter our sacred space. All too often we don’t give our pussy the love that it needs and deserves. When we neglect our pussy it overflows into us not enjoying our sexuality in it’s fullness, and we definitely don’t reap the full benefit and pleasure of sex and love-making with others.


I know some of you out there honour Pussy like the Goddess that she is … but I also know that many of you don’t, and it’s time to change your ways. Our pussy is like a flower (cliche, yes, but true) and for us to open our flower to you, you must meet us with a view that you are entering a sacred temple space. You must also bring in healthy presence and a deep honouring of us in order for us to completely surrender to your touch and to your sexual energy.

“You must honour your pussy yourself.”

When our pussy feels honoured and a space is created for us to surrender, we will open creating deeper pleasure and increased capacity to experience deeper ecstasy and orgasm.


Before you begin manifesting lovers into your life who honour your temple, you must honour your pussy yourself. Take time to explore her, massage her, connect with her and give her what she wants and needs. Begin an intimate and loving relationship with her on a daily basis and feel into what she truly desires. When you can do that for yourself, you will then begin to notice your lovers will open to that energy, and in turn honour your temple in a new and more profound way.

So are you ready to self honour?

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78% of women who use sex toys report being in a relationship, so getting to know your vagina may be something you do by yourself to kick it off, or it could be a wonderful journey with your special other(s). These suggestions are a great starting place for connection.

Enjoy the journey,

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MiSS Bi is uni-sex and designed for both internal and external use.

The two motor design combines phenomenal clitoris stimulation with arousing vibrations designed to be directed on the G-spot. Being able to control the two motors independently enables you to configure the ideal combination for your body.

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About Juliet Allen

Juliet Allen is a Sexologist, Sexuality Coach, Tantra Practitioner and author. Juliet’s purpose is to empower men and women to embrace their sexuality & transform their sex and relationships.
2017-03-31T15:09:56+11:00 By |Body, Clitoris, Juliet Allen, Mind, SexAdvice, Vagina, Vulva|

2 Comments

  1. Andrew Thaler December 8, 2016 at 5:18 pm - Reply

    so… the worshipping a penis post gives some instructions on what to do… whilst this post about the Vulva seems to sell the readers quite short.. not even a simple instruction on what to do like sending a text message to your ‘temple’ as was suggested for the bloke bit.

    • Vävven December 13, 2016 at 1:13 pm - Reply

      Aww, you’re so right. We have left detail a little light, promise to make it up soon. V

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